What I take to be the most controversial scene in the book is the part where Sethe decides to take her children out into the shed to kill them when she sees Schoolteacher's hat. There are many different ways to assess the decision that she makes and while it is an extreme thing to do, we know that her reasons were not because she actually wanted to kill her children, but because she loved them too much to let them be treated by Schoolteacher the same way she was treated. In addition, no matter what we say about the decision, it did in fact work and even though Beloved died, Buglar, Howard, and Denver ended up living a life outside of slavery.
This reaction reminds me of how people commit suicide. That has always been a controversial topic and in the past and still today, people don't like the action, but in a way, that act is similar to what Sethe does. People often commit suicide because they feel like death would be the better than continuing to live the way they are living right then. If we don't judge these people harshly, even though Sethe made that decision for her children, then we kind of have no right to judge her the same way. In addition, we have to take into account the different time periods we are talking about. The time period around 1857 didn't offer the help that is provided to people today. Also, even though there are still problems with society today, some things aren't as bad like how there is no law claiming that a person is another person's property and there is no escaped slave law.
In the part of the book when Sethe learns that Halle had seen what happened to her and broke down we learn that, "Other people went crazy, why couldn't she?" (83). She would thought about how good it would've been to just sit there and smear butter over her face like Halle was doing, but she couldn't because, "her children were chewing sugar teat under a blanket on their way to Ohio and no butter play would change that, " (84). She wished that she could just shut down and not care about anything anymore like Halle, but she couldn't because she had her children to take care of. Another way that there is a time gap is now we would see what Sethe went through to save her children as very heartwarming and showing that nothing is as powerful as motherly love, but in the book we see that this wasn't seen as such a good thing with Paul D saying that, "Your love is too thick," (193). It is apparent that many people in the book are appalled at the decision that Sethe makes, but what choice did she have in the situation? Especially when none of the other people assisted her in any way.
Finally, while the ending is a bit confusing, we can see that there is something a bit happy about it. Although she stated earlier in the book that she doesn't get a chance to just be whatever she wants to be, do we see the end as Sethe finally being able to "go crazy"? What do you think?